Tuesday, February 10, 2009

TETAPI, HOWEVER, BUT (I want my dream wedding too)

This is a general talk,about wedding's dream.

Yes, it is a fantasy of every bride to have her own wedding dream
From that white satin, to 3 tiers cake, to that pelamin with full of fresh flowers
Not to mention, an invitation with embossed letter on hard cover scented paper
And a centerpiece at each table that will simply take their breath away...


Please live in your own reality world
In this downturn economic, janganlah sampai nak berhutang keliling pinggang...
Please do not argue with everyone as they have their opinion too on ur weds...
and please.. Do take consideration of - WHAT IF ?

Whay do i said all this?
Simply to tell bride-to-be,
Sometimes, we are not as lucky as they are to be able making our dream wedding come true!


We can always make at least some of those dreams, do come true,
By applying this principles; (and proper plan)

1. It is only a wedding, NOT LIFE! So, please do consider real life after marriaged
2. Please do not compare yourself with celebrity ker, artist ker, anak datuk ker even with anybody. Sometimes their wedding too not as simple and beautiful as per published.
3. "Its my Wedding, Its my Money" will not make u happy in the end. Why?, haven't u heard blessing = berkat ? You will be happy when you see everyone happy too! And, believe me, they will be happier for you...
4. Expensive is NOT BEAUTIFUL. Please bare in mind that,NOT EVERYTHING EXPENSIVE actually BEAUTIFUL. There are much choices out there you can find beautiful stuff at way lower price. So what if they are judging u?, that is all you can afford! with your very own money!
5. Most important, is YOU and HIM with LOVE

Stay tune for my next write up on for many more tips and talk everything about wedding everywhere else.


xeea said...

not everything we wish will be granted. most importantly, the effort we put for our very own wedding. let it be OUR wedding NOT anyone else's.

at the end of the day, life after marriage is the most important thing. NOT the vaa-vaa-voom wedding dress that cost your thousand pennies.

please be realistic, dear bride.

4weddingku.mya said...

:) Agreed! Life after Marriage!

little miss kechik said...

bridezillas... its just a damn 4 hour party.. please do not over do it.. *LOL*

Anonymous said...

so very true..life AFTER marriage..:)

yg sedang berhoneymoon tu maybe belum sedar lagi but when u get there believe me life AFTER marriage is a whole lot more..THAT is life.

in the end, that garrsih colored prada bag or jewellery u showed off or the killer heels by CHANEL is NOT relevant.

Anonymous said...

That’s Too nice, when it comes in india hope it can make a Rocking place for youngster.. hope that come true.

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