Giving money replacing gift is norm in Malaysia. well, sometimes it even preferred by the bride her self. This cash would be moreuseful to clear debts or even preparation for honeymoon or entering their new house. It also however depends how close you are with the bride's family. We tend to give higher if we close or relative.
How to gift?.. well normally we insert it into the ang pow or a small envelope. Its either u just congratulates the brides or write up your name if you wants!. Who to give - its either the parents of the bride & groom themselve.
Here are some 4weddingku ang pau tips.
Hotel : RM50-RM100
Home : RM20-Rm50